When Do They Stop Making Parents Feel Guilty

Okay, I'll be the first to admit my boys are spoiled! And have been made to feel that the world centers around them (especially our oldest). He's the only one we've ever actually bought a car for. He and Lance will both finish at U of A at the same time. However, Nathan is focused on his education like no other...so he is all set to go to graduate school. And I'm so proud of him!! It looks like he'll have to go to UCA for graduate school so he'll be leaving home. Well, as some of you know and most of you don't...Terry and I will eventually be moving back to Mtn. Home in the future...no date is set...a lot has to be done to our home in many ways before it will be ready for us to move into and Terry has to get a transfer through with work. Now if push came to shove we could actually move into it tomorrow..but there's things we want to do before making the move. So hubby and I have talked about this at length and we both agree that our boys no matter what need our help. So keeping a roof over their head is number one on the list...until we move we'll be supporting 2 households, so in the beginning that won't change. But one son in particular is having absolute hissy fits over the idea of us going back to MH. In the long run our sons will benefit the most from his change in our lives...but seeing into the future undoubtedly is not a life lesson our sons have learned yet. Talk about feeling you're between a rock and a hard place!